We all have our own definitions.
Mine is so all over the place.
Wish i could sum up my definition of love in 10 words or less.
I love this quote though about love.
"Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two."
I think ONE of my favorite parts about loving someone that truly loves you back is being able to be yourself 100%. Like when your able to be completely vulnerable and not have to think twice about just being you..thats beautiful. ..takes alot of trust.i think when you grow together you get there.
And people have to remember. no one is perfect. everyone has flaws.or someone will have somethingg that gets on your nerves or that you cant stand. but at the end of the day you gotta compromise and stop to weigh the important things over those things. too many people let the petty things get in the way...and cant see beyond that...if its big huge things u cant take i get it...but not petty things. thats why people are divorcing left and right.
and hey, its okay to ask yourself: Can I do better? Make sure your man deserves you ladies. Make sure you believe he is ready for what you have to give.
Friday, July 31, 2009
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